Bristol writer has the X-Factor
By Sarah20093 | Tuesday, August 11, 2009, 10:11
Tina Coulsting Carter used to be so painfully shy that her heart would
start pounding at the very thought of announcing her name.
Now,
however, she is a confident public speaker who has built a business
around helping others to present themselves effectively.
And
she reckons that anyone can achieve a similar dramatic change in their
ability to address an audience by following a simple formula that she
has devised.
Such is her faith in the way her system
can transform a person's ability to present themselves that she has now
written a book called Get The Presentation X-Factor.
"It's
a formula that can work for anyone," says Tina, 54, when we meet in the
offices of Bristol-based Mentor Communications Consultancy, of which
she is a co-founder.
"So many people who have learned the formula have said to me 'oh my God, I wish I'd known that 10 years ago'."
But
surely not everyone needs to know such a formula? After all, most of us
don't have to make presentations in our everyday lives.
Tina disagrees. "The formula doesn't just apply to when you're making a speech in front of an audience," she says.
"This is something that can be used in many aspects of your daily life, such as emails and phone calls.
"For
every email and every phone call I make, I know in my mind what my main
message is, which is one of the key aspects of the formula. There's
nothing worse than people who ramble on and don't get to the point."
Tina
first began thinking about a formula for successful presentation more
than a decade ago, when she was involved in producing a training video
starring the comedian Mel Smith.
"Mel Smith was playing Christopher Columbus pitching to the King and Queen of Spain for funds to discover America," she recalls.
"I really learnt a lot from working on that, because it showed the importance of getting your message across effectively."
The
following year, Tina began teaching media production at the University
of the West of England, where she had taken a degree in media and
cultural studies.
"I was showing students how to
make news programmes, and I remembered the lessons I'd learnt from the
video with Mel Smith," she says.
"It made me think
that if I was going to show students how to present then I was going to
have to do a good job of presenting myself so that got my message
across well.
"After all, if you don't show confidence in yourself, you can't expect people to be confident in you."
Tina
believes that her own ability as a presenter is testimony to the
success of her formula for getting The Presentation X-Factor.
"I
know what it's like to be painfully shy. I remember being very young
and sitting in a meeting and feeling my heart beating very hard because
I knew it was getting closer to when I'd have to announce my name to
everyone," she says.
"I'm like most other people. I
find it hard to sell myself, but at the same time I have to abide by my
own rules. I've had to teach myself the formula, and I feel a
responsibility to get the message out there."
So what is Tina's formula? It can be found in full on page 55 of her book Get The Presentation X-Factor,
and key points include deciding the main message you want to get
across, and showing your audience how your message benefits them.
"Audiences
have short attention spans," she says. "You have to catch them and hold
them, and that means making it clear why what you're saying is going to
be useful to them.
"If someone doesn't grasp the point you're making right from the start they don't bother to listen, so an opportunity is lost.
"What
I see in presentations by many business managers is that often people
don't understand the point they're trying to make until three quarters
of the way through what they are saying."
Tina points out that failing to get your message across is a problem that does not only occur with an audience.
"For
me, the difference between a manager and a leader is someone who
communicates well, and makes people feel good about coming to work,"
she explains.
"If you can encourage somebody to do a
job then they're more likely to succeed in that job than if you're
suspicious of them all the time. If someone expects you to fail then
you invariably will."
I remark that presumably this
"toxic boss" situation can also apply to politicians, given the way
Labour MPs were almost evangelically on-message under Tony Blair but
now seem mutinous and uncertain of what they stand for under Gordon
Brown.
"I do a lot of training with people like
him," Tina replies. "They're very analytical and not particularly
expressive. People like Gordon Brown don't like making small talk. They
don't understand what it's for.
"I remember working
with the head of a big public sector organisation who had been promoted
up the ranks but found it very difficult to relate to his staff.
"He
was someone who didn't do small talk, and I had to say to him that he
just had to see making small talk as part of his job, such as asking
his PA about how her son is.
"Analytical types such
as him like having a formula they can work to. He contacted me later
and said 'I can't believe this, it's brilliant'."
Tina points out that some people are not natural communicators.
"It's harder for some people than others," she says. "Gordon Brown does well considering his background and personality."
So which politician is an inspiring communicator? "Barack Obama," she replies without hesitation.
"He's
got absolutely everything. When he talks to people he addresses their
concerns, and he speaks in a language that anyone can understand."
Mentor
Communications Consultancy, in Redland, not only provides
communications training for major companies, but also does training for
individuals.
"We do a fair bit of interview training, for example, with people who have interviews for big jobs," she says.
"What I'd say to anyone made redundant and wanting to get back to work is that they should invest in themselves.
"Paying
for interview training may seem like a lot of money, but you have to
weigh up the value in terms of whether it could give you the edge, and
if it is the case then it's money well-spent."
How
would Tina's formula work in a job interview? "As with presenting to a
meeting, or making any other kind of presentation, it's about knowing
what you want to say," she replies.
"You should ask
yourself about the things you want to get across and expand upon them.
Always have examples so that you can clarify things and bring them to
life.
"Interviewees think they can't have any control over the interview, but they can – it's about being prepared."
Get The Presentation X-Factor! is published in association with Silverwood Books and costs £9.99 in paperback.
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